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Ya Can't Win It All!

How in the world is one suposed to be happy if one is always focussed on pleasing everyone else?!
Been having a pretty rough day...homework piling up and then having a hard time with a really close guy friend. I hate it when I can't help someone be happy...especially when they are unhappy because of something that you did. :( 

My Good Friend sent me that picture quote just kinda reminding me that I can't please everyone, as much as I would like to, it just won't happen. It is a tough concept for most people to grasp, especially girls, but tis very true. 
When we are focused on pleasing everyone else, we will forever be miserable. FACT. Yes, serve others, and try to put a smile on everyone's faces that you meet, but if you can't, don't sweat it. 

That is my thought.

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